你為什么喜歡幫助別人？

Garrett Murphy, Father, friend, coder, skeptic, goofball
Combination of factors.
First, it feels good, to me, to know I helped somebody. There’s that bit of ego-stoking that comes with knowing that you did the right thing and helped somebody out, a bit of a superiority boost comes with that.
Next, in many cases, I tend to help people because it’s necessary, and I like feeling needed. Short person in the grocery store? Sure I’ll grab that thing off the top shelf for you. Wimpy dude has a flat tire and can’t get his lug nuts loosened? Step aside, wimpy dude! Need help with homework? Check out the brain on this guy here!
But, I think the bigger reason is that I still hold out hope that our world can be a better place. We’re currently in a world that is very much in a “me me me” mindset, and I have a feeling it’s going to get a bit worse in the coming years.

原因有很多。
首先，對我來說，知道自己幫助了某人感覺會很好。當(dāng)你知道自己做了正確的事并幫助了別人時(shí)，會有一點(diǎn)“自大”的感覺，隨之而來的是一點(diǎn)優(yōu)越感的提升。
其次，在很多情況下，我傾向于幫助別人，因?yàn)槲蚁矚g被需要的感覺。在雜貨店碰到矮個(gè)子的人時(shí)我會幫忙把架子上的東西拿下來。倒霉的家伙車胎癟了，連車輪螺母都擰不松？讓開，倒霉蛋！作業(yè)（不會做）需要幫助嗎？看看你這家伙的腦子！
但是，我認(rèn)為更大的原因是我希望我們的世界能變得更好。我們現(xiàn)在所處的世界（很多人）存在非?！白晕摇钡男膽B(tài)，我有一種感覺，未來幾年會變得更糟。

Black Friday is coming in two days here in the USA, and I’m steeling myself to see all kinds of depravity of people stampeding through stores, fighting each other for the last of a certain toy, people trashing displays and so on. But I remember, a couple years back, seeing a tiny little woman, less than 5′ tall, struggling in a Wal-Mart to get to some innocuous, silly thing that was on a massive discount, surrounded by a mob of lunacy…I watched for a moment from a distance, saw the lack of any civility or decorum, watched as this woman was pushed away repeatedly…and I didn’t have to wonder the right thing, I walked up, asked her, “Which one do you need?”, got the answer, and just jammed myself into that scrum, coming out with exactly what she needed.
I saw gratitude and acknowledgement (by doing this, I may very well have lost out on one of the Black Friday deals, and any minute of delay would end up as more time in the busy cash register lines), and I hope that maybe, just maybe, she may be able to return the favor for somebody else. Maybe, if people will start doing nice things for one another again, we can reverse direction a bit on the path we’re going down.
I know, I know…keep dreaming…but, I still have hope.

在美國，黑色星期五還有兩天就要到了，我感到有點(diǎn)沮喪，因?yàn)槲铱吹礁鞣N各樣墮落的人們在商店里爭先恐后，互相爭奪最后一個(gè)玩具，人們把展品弄得亂七八糟等等。我仍然記得，幾年前，我看到一個(gè)身材矮小的女人，不到5英尺高，在沃爾瑪里掙扎著去買一些沒用且愚蠢的東西，周圍都是一群瘋狂的傻子，我從遠(yuǎn)處看了一會兒，他們之中不講任何禮貌和禮節(jié)，看著這個(gè)女人被一再推開。然后我沒多想，走上前問她，“你需要哪一個(gè)？”，得到了答案后，然后把我加入混亂隊(duì)伍中，拿出了她需要的東西。
我看到了（來自她的）感激（這樣做很可能導(dǎo)致我自己在黑色星期五的交易中會晚一步，任何一分鐘的延遲都會導(dǎo)致在繁忙的收銀機(jī)那里等候更長時(shí)間），我希望她也許可以將恩情回報(bào)給其他人。如果人們再次開始為彼此提供幫助，我們可以在前進(jìn)的道路上稍微改變一下方向。
我知道這是在做夢而已。但是，我仍然希望如此。
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Shailesh Prajapati, Quora's Silent Editor
The only problem with this answer is, no matter how much I try not to, still it’s gonna sound like I am bragging about myself. But, I am just stating the facts which is the need of this answer.
Yes, I do!
I am a helpful person by nature. I have been helping others to my best possible extent.
I do small donations to the NGOs every year, usually for the kids’ welfare. My office sexts NGO every year and circulates email to all employees, and immediately, I do my bit without having any second thoughts about it. This year, I have donated some school stationery and some money.
I have been helping my office colleagues as well. I train them for software and for work related matters. In fact, I am very good at mentoring people. I help them in troubleshooting something that they can't figure out themselves.

這個(gè)答案唯一的問題是，無論我如何避免，聽起來都像是在自我吹噓。但是沒辦法，我只是陳述事實(shí)。是的，我確實(shí)天生是個(gè)樂于助人的人。我一直在盡可能地幫助別人。
我每年都向非政府組織捐款，通常是為了兒童福利。我的辦公室每年都會向所有員工發(fā)送電子郵件，我會立即盡自己的一份力，沒有任何猶豫。今年，我捐了一些文具和錢。
我也一直在幫助我辦公室的同事。我對他們進(jìn)行軟件和工作相關(guān)的培訓(xùn)。事實(shí)上，我很擅長指導(dǎo)別人。我會幫助他們解決一些他們自己無法解決的問題。

I also make short macros for them, so that their work gets done quicker. Mind you, things like this don't come under my job profile. It is just that I know some things better, so they ask if I can think of something quick that would reduce their time and effort in repetitive work. I am a very approachable person.
Sometimes, I get poem requests from my colleagues for their kids as well. Writing poems for them makes me a kid, too. So, I enjoy it very much.
On Quora, I am the ‘Silent Editor'. I edit other users’ answers, either on my own, or on request by users to check and edit their answers. I enjoy doing this task very much.
I provide guidance to many new users here on Quora. Some of them have turned pro now. My help includes helping them understand the importance of grammar, dos and don'ts of writing, explaining function of Quora, and troubleshooting.
Some of my answers here are intended to help new users with their writing. Some are helpful for existing users, too.
Helping, in general, helps me learn a lot of new things which I may not have known without being helpful. I am always looking for situations where I can challenge my existing skill sets, or just utilize my skills for helping others.

我還為他們制作了簡短的宏指令，這樣他們的工作就可以更快地完成。注意，像這樣的事情不屬于我的工作范圍。只是我對一些事情比較了解，所以他們問我能不能想出一些快速的方法，減少他們在重復(fù)性工作中的所浪費(fèi)的時(shí)間和精力，可以說我是一個(gè)很平易近人的人。
有時(shí)，同事會讓我給他們孩子寫詩歌。為他們寫詩讓我也成了孩子。所以，我對此非常享受。
在Quora上，我是“沉默的編輯”。我可以主動(dòng)編輯其他用戶的答案，也可以根據(jù)用戶的請求檢查和編輯他們的答案。我非常喜歡做這項(xiàng)工作。
我在Quora上為許多新用戶提供指導(dǎo)。他們中的一些人現(xiàn)在已經(jīng)成為專家了。我的幫助包括幫助他們理解語法的重要性，寫作的注意事項(xiàng)，解釋Quora的功能，以及故障排除。
我這里的一些回答是為了對新用戶起到幫助。有些對老用戶也會有幫助。
總的來說，幫助他人能幫助我學(xué)到很多新的東西，如果沒有幫助他人的話，我可能不知道這些東西。我總是在尋找能挑戰(zhàn)我現(xiàn)有技能，或者只是利用我的技能幫助別人的場景。

However, like everything else, there are always downsides of being helpful as well. There are a few (read: just a few) people who think (and behave) like I am available just for them to be ‘used' the way they like (for their benefit).
But, my thinking is, if 9 people out of 10 are genuine in asking for my help, I am gonna ignore that 1 greedy person, and continue doing what I usually do - being helpful.
Is there anyway I can help you?
Smiles! :)

然而，和其他事情一樣，樂于助人也會存在弊端。有一些人（只是少數(shù)人）覺得（或表現(xiàn)出）我只是在為他們付出，而且可以被他們所喜歡的方式利用（為了他們的利益）。
但是，我的想法是，如果10個(gè)人中有9個(gè)人真誠地請求我的幫助，我會忽略這1個(gè)貪婪的人，繼續(xù)做我通常做的事情——樂于助人。
有什么我能幫你的嗎？
微笑！
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Usha Aron, Musician, Dreamer, Doer
Why not?? It’s the easiest thing to do. I look for people and places to help, thankfully not to my own detriment. Have I gotten hurt? Mostly no (bloody happy to report!) but have I gotten hurt at some point? Out madame. I have. Your ego must feel satisfied that it found a fault didn’t it? Hear me out: Apparently once you turn adult not everything is black and white. So here’s what I follow.
There is a principal that makes a lot of sense “Who is going to harm you if you are eager to do good?” - I Peter 3: 13. You see there is a very large difference between hurt and harm. Sure there are interlixs between them but you cannot confuse the two. Likewise there is difference between your being wise and your being smart.
Being wise helps you show kindness without making it a business. It serves you well in the long run. Being smart makes your kindness a business. It serves you well temporarily. Later people come collecting. Being smart in any area means that you know what questions to ask. Being wise is all about whether to ask that question in the first place. This logic is no different in the area of hospitality. ALWAYS CHOOSE WISDOM OVER BEING SMART.

為什么不？這是最容易做的事。我會尋找對象和地方來幫助他人，謝天謝地，這不會損害到我自己。我有受傷嗎？基本上沒有（我很樂意這么說！）但我有沒有在某些方面受過傷呢？我有。你的自尊心一定很滿意，因?yàn)椋◣椭耍┮l(fā)現(xiàn)了問題，不是嗎？聽我說：一旦你長大就會發(fā)現(xiàn)并不是所有的事情都是非黑即白的。所以下面就是我要說的。
有一則經(jīng)文很有道理，“你們?nèi)羰菬嵝男猩?，有誰害你們呢？ “——《彼得福音》。你看受傷和傷害有很大的區(qū)別。當(dāng)然它們之間有聯(lián)系，但你不能混淆。同樣，明智和聰明之間也有區(qū)別。
明智有助于你表現(xiàn)出善意，而不是把它當(dāng)成生意。從長遠(yuǎn)來看，這對你很有好處。聰明使你的善良成為生意。它暫時(shí)為你服務(wù)，后來人們會做出選擇。在任何領(lǐng)域都聰明意味著你知道該問什么問題。明智的關(guān)鍵在于是否首先提出這個(gè)問題。這種邏輯在待客方面沒有什么不同。但始終要選擇明智而不是聰明。

As a human being make the deliberate choice to understand your audience. Understand that people are not perfect. At the same time also understand that your spiritual, emotional, financial, physical reserves are limited. You have only that much energy per day necessary for you to tackle that day’s challenges. Be wise.
Because humans aren’t perfect your past hurt should have taught you well that not everyone treats you like you do yourself. Hurt is their way of expressing their lack. I hurt because I trusted them not to hurt me. Those who treat you better than you treat yourself or just as equally deserve your company. You can’t ask for a better filter in your company than this. Learn to be sextive and choose your battles wisely. Proves me point about who can harm you when you are eager to do good. Yes?
People who expect a hand in and not a hand out are people I stay a galaxy and an universe away from. They are only takers. Giving is too much and too expensive for them. They have the poorest self esteem and will use their own faults and exploit them against you. Such people are not worth a dime. You have to know yourself very well and add tax to your worth to such people. Otherwise don’t be too surprised that you done got usurped.

作為一個(gè)人，你去理解你的受眾要做出深思熟慮的選擇。明白人不是完美的。同時(shí)也要明白，你的精神、情感、財(cái)力、體力儲備都是有限的。你每天只有那么多的精力去應(yīng)對那一天的挑戰(zhàn)。所以明智點(diǎn)。
因?yàn)槿祟惒⒉皇峭昝赖?，你過去的受到傷害應(yīng)該很好地教會你，不是每個(gè)人對待你的方式都像你對待你自己一樣。受傷是展現(xiàn)缺點(diǎn)的方式。我受傷是因?yàn)槲蚁嘈潘麄儾粫ξ?。那些對你比你對自己還要好的人或許是同樣值得你陪伴的人。你不能要求公司有比這更好的篩選方法。學(xué)會有選擇性，明智地選擇你的戰(zhàn)斗（方向）。證明了我的觀點(diǎn)：當(dāng)你渴望做好事的時(shí)候，誰會傷害你。
那些希望得到幫助而不幫助別人的人，我會離他們遠(yuǎn)遠(yuǎn)的。他們只是索取者。給予對他們來說太珍貴了。他們自尊心很弱，會利用自己的缺點(diǎn)來攻擊你。你必須非常了解自己，按照自己的價(jià)值標(biāo)準(zhǔn)掂量那些人。否則就不要為自己被篡位而感到驚訝。

There are people who are worth the suffering. If they are worth the suffering then any help given will be remembered and highly blessed. Why? Because people remember not what you did for them but how you made them feel. You will be surprised at just how life comes back to bless you. The fact that you receive unmerited and undeserved favour at home, profession, life… isn’t coincidence. The fact that someone you rarely knew defended you or helped you without expectation at just that particular moment in time isn’t coincidence at all. That is life and heaven blessing you just as you have blessed someone. Especially when they didn’t deserve it.
There is nothing romantic about helping people. It is only a mark of your character. As long as you have life inside you there is always room for improvement. As long as you believe that God is for you expect your life to be blessed. Always be in the business of acquiring wealth not riches.
I hope this helps. Thank you for personally asking me to reply. Many HUGS!!!

有些人值得忍受痛苦。如果他們值得受苦，那么他們所給予的任何幫助都將被銘記并得到祝福。為什么？因?yàn)槿藗冇浀玫牟皇悄銥樗麄冏隽耸裁矗悄憬o他們的感覺。你會驚訝于生活是如何反過來回饋?zhàn)８Ｓ谀愕模耗阍诩彝ァ⒙殬I(yè)、生活中得到了本不應(yīng)得的恩惠，這些都不是巧合。事實(shí)上，你幾乎不認(rèn)識的人在某個(gè)特定的時(shí)刻無私地為你辯護(hù)或幫助你，這根本不是巧合。這就是生活和天堂對你的祝福，就像你曾祝福某人一樣，尤其是當(dāng)他們不配的時(shí)候。
幫助別人一點(diǎn)也不浪漫。這只是你性格的一個(gè)特點(diǎn)。只要你還活著，總會有改進(jìn)的空間。只要你相信上帝是為你而設(shè)，你的生命就會得到祝福。永遠(yuǎn)去追求財(cái)富而不是財(cái)富本身。
我希望這能有所幫助。謝謝你親自邀請我回復(fù)。給你大大的擁抱！

Parthib Ghosh, Indian. I love to interact with people. Always a learner.
I’ll give you an example. I’m just a student who gets his limited pocket money from his parents.
A few days back I went to a juice shop with my friend. I had cough and cold and I was just accompanying my friend who was having a glass of mango juice (the main reason was, I didn’t have enough money for a glass of juice). A small girl child with messy hairs and dull clothes to my friend asking for money. My friend scared him away saying, “I don’t have money, just go away” like many others. She was skinny and weak. I took no other second, asked the child to come with me to a nearby shop. I asked the shopkeeper for a large packet of biscuits. I gave it to the child.
I asked the shopkeeper if it’s okay if I pay him the money the next day, for which he happily agreed (the shop is near my college and I use to go there almost everyday and he knows me very well).
The child took the packet of biscuits and gave a happy look and went away with it, eating biscuits.
*The look which she gave me before she went away with told everything. She was hungry, maybe for days.
On my way back to hostel, I saw that child sitting with other 2 children near a rickshaw stand and sharing biscuits with them. I wish I could have done something better for them.
I help others not to expect anything from them. I help others because I feel happy. The smiles which I see after helping someone makes my day. When I feel lonely, I recall about them and I smile. There are many less fortunate people around us. Even a small step can make them feel special.

我給你舉個(gè)例子。我只是一個(gè)從父母那里得到有限零花錢的學(xué)生。
幾天前我咳嗽感冒，我和朋友去了一家果汁店，朋友喝芒果汁，我陪著他而已（主要原因是我沒有足夠的錢買一杯果汁）。一個(gè)頭發(fā)凌亂、衣服呆板的小女孩向我的朋友要錢。我的朋友嚇跑了他，并且像其他人一樣說：“我沒有錢，滾！”她又瘦又弱。我不假思索就帶孩子一起去附近的一家商店。我向店主要了一大包餅干，并把它給了那個(gè)孩子。
我問店主，我是否可以第二天再給他錢，他很高興地答應(yīng)了（商店離我的大學(xué)很近，我?guī)缀趺刻於既ツ抢铮芰私馕遥?br /> 孩子拿起那包餅干，高興地看了一眼后就帶著餅干走了。
*她臨走前的眼神告訴了我一切。她可能餓了好幾天了。
在我回旅館的路上，我看見那個(gè)孩子和另外兩個(gè)孩子坐在一個(gè)人力車位旁邊，一起分享餅干。我真希望我能幫他們做一些更好的事情。
我?guī)椭鷦e人時(shí)不會期望他們有任何回報(bào)。我?guī)椭鷦e人是因?yàn)槲腋械娇鞓?。在幫助別人后對方的微笑能使我感到開心。當(dāng)感到孤獨(dú)的時(shí)候，回想起他們，我會不自覺地微笑。我們身邊有很多不幸的人。哪怕是一個(gè)很小的舉動(dòng)，都能讓他們感到與眾不同。

Arie Pratama, Product Manager at noora-analytica.com.
In general, I like helping others. In case of how hard and how much level of energy required to solve other people's problems, it depends on my condition on this time, like my fitness level, mood, etc.
Helping others can be fun. Energy that we give to solve others problem, somehow will back to us in beautiful and unpredictable way.
Don't try to think about egoistic people don't like to helping others. According to benefit of helping people is we get the benefit too, the most helpful people in the world is the most (altruism) egoistic people in the world.
Conclusion is, if you feel you are egoistic people, don't try too hard to change your personality for being nice. Just redefine the meaning of egoistic itself.

總的來說，我喜歡幫助別人。如果說解決別人需要付出多大的努力和精力，那就要看我這段時(shí)間的狀況，比如我的體能水平、心情等。
幫助別人很有趣。我們?yōu)榻鉀Q別人的問題付出精力，在某種情況下將以美麗而無法預(yù)測的方式回饋給我們。
不要試著去想那些自私的人，他們不喜歡幫助別人。從幫助別人的好處來看，我們也從中受益，世界上最樂于助人的人就是世界上最無私的人，也可以說是最利己的人。
結(jié)論是，如果你覺得自己是自私自利的人，請不要為了保持友善而努力地改變自己的性格。只是需要重新定義利己主義本身的意義就可以。
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Dusty McGarry, lives in Oregon (2011-present)
Drowning (both literally, and figuratively) people can easily drown you as you try to rescue them.
I'm preprogrammed to literally dash to help others in physical need. I can catch glasses of water falling off of tables, push people out of the way of forklifts, and catch people about to fall off a cliff/balcony.
I grew up in a small town, where It was simply a given for my mom to make lemonade/iced tea for firemen a block or two away, then sending me, a 5-9 year old girl to serve the glasses in a tray to the melting volunteers, bring the empty glasses back, and take more full ones out, while mom washed the returns to refill. We had 5 fires a block radius away in 5 years. I don't know what caused 2 of the fires, but one was set by the building owner to collect insurance after the post office stopped renting due to water dripping on the mail, a 2nd by twin children of the hotel's widowed owner, and a 3rd by the mayor's grandchild -- both of these playing with matches - the first was a window curtain that destroyed the entire hotel, her only source of income.
Our propensity to help others put us at risks no city person would dare. My mother, on her way to pick me up at school to rush to a scheduled doctor appointment, stopped to give a ride to our hitchhiking town drug dealer, Matt, because he was trying to get to his one mandatory English class for senior year. I was just a little girl and I still tore her up one side and down the other for doing that, but she said he was trying to rehab himself. Of course this didn't last. Mere weeks later, Matt stole our mayor's wife's family heirloom jewelry while indoors from swimming in the in ground pool with their son, supposedly just to go to the bathroom -- their son later burst into Matt's dad's place and found the few items Matt hadn't instantly sold for drugs yet.
One thing I soon learned what that becoming friends with absolutely everyone was not a good idea.

當(dāng)你試圖營救溺水者（無論是字面上的，還是比喻上的）時(shí)，他們很容易導(dǎo)致你一起溺死。
我就是為去幫助那些需要幫助的人而生的。我能抓到從桌子上掉下來的水杯，把人從叉車旁邊推開，還能拉住即將從懸崖或陽臺上摔下去的人。
我在一個(gè)小鎮(zhèn)上長大，在那里，我媽媽從事簡單的工作，被安排給一兩個(gè)街區(qū)外的消防隊(duì)員泡檸檬水或冰茶，然后讓我這個(gè)5-9歲的小女孩把盤子里的茶端給好心的志愿者，之后把空玻璃杯拿回來，待媽媽則把杯子洗干凈再裝滿后我再把裝滿了茶的玻璃杯拿出來。在5年內(nèi)，我們方圓一個(gè)街區(qū)外發(fā)生了5起火災(zāi)。我不知道是什么引起了其中兩起火災(zāi)，但其中一起是在郵局因漏水導(dǎo)致水滴在郵件上而停止租房后，大樓主人為了領(lǐng)取保險(xiǎn)金而引發(fā)的火災(zāi)，第二起是旅館喪偶的老板的雙胞胎孩子造成的，第三起是市長的孫子造成的；這兩起都是由于玩火柴造成的——第一起是從窗簾開始起火，然后毀了整個(gè)酒店，這是她唯一的收入來源。
我們幫助別人的意愿使我們處于任何市民都不敢冒的危險(xiǎn)之中。我母親在去學(xué)校接我再趕去見已預(yù)約的醫(yī)生的路上，停下來讓順路的毒販子馬特搭便車，因?yàn)樗肴ド洗笏谋匦薜挠⒄Z課。我那時(shí)還是個(gè)小女孩，我仍然反對她那樣做，但她說他正在努力改造（戒毒）。當(dāng)然，這并沒有持續(xù)多久。僅僅幾周后，我們市長夫人和他們的孩子在室內(nèi)游泳池游泳時(shí)，馬特偷走了他們的傳世珠寶，據(jù)說當(dāng)時(shí)只是為了上廁所——他們的兒子后來在馬特父親的住處，發(fā)現(xiàn)了馬特還沒有來得及賣掉的幾件毒品。
我很快就明白了，和每個(gè)人交朋友絕對不是個(gè)好主意。

Anonymous
Why would some one not like to help ? If you are good at something or capable of contributing at least some thing back why hesitate ?
What if one fine day our Mother Earth realises that it has helped us enough in providing us with oxygen, water, etc and it stops that.
We cannot survive in isolation. Each one of us need help in some or the other way. Despite knowing that we will also need help from others at one point of time we still turn selfish and do not pay any heed to any hand needing help.
However we should help others not because we seek help in return but just to carry forward the principle of humanity. To make others realise that they are not alone.
“I believe the world is a big family and we need to help each other” and also “No one has ever become poor by giving”.

為什么有人不愿意幫忙？如果你擅長某件事或者至少有能力做出貢獻(xiàn)，為什么還要猶豫呢？
如果某一天天氣晴朗，我們的地球母親意識到它在為我們提供氧氣、水等方面給予了我們足夠的幫助后剝奪了這一切。這時(shí)我們是無法生存的。我們每個(gè)人都需要某種幫助。盡管我們知道我們也會在某個(gè)時(shí)刻需要?jiǎng)e人的幫助，我們卻變得自私，不理會任何需要幫助的人。
其實(shí)，我們應(yīng)該幫助別人，不是因?yàn)槲覀儗で蠡貓?bào)，而是為了弘揚(yáng)人道主義。讓別人意識到他們并不孤單。
我相信世界是一個(gè)大家庭，我們需要互相幫助，還有從來沒有人因?yàn)楦冻龆兊秘毟F。

Alexandra Wolf, B.A. Journalism, Alexandru Ioan Cuza University (2022)
To be honest, yes. I don't like most people because they're not as self-aware as me. If you ever see me doing something for someone else it is in order to feel good about myself. I'm very self-centered.

說實(shí)話，大多數(shù)人我都不是很喜歡，因?yàn)樗麄儧]有我那么有自知之明。如果你看到我為別人做一些事情，那是我為了讓自己感覺良好。我是一個(gè)以自我為中心的人。

Monisha Prasad
I think Gratefulness and Helping go hand in hand.
Once you are grateful for something you already have, accepting it on the whole with all the flaws you experience a feeling of sublime happiness which you want another human to experience as well.
You tend to observe any person in the hunt for the feeling and you now want the person to experience the same joy. That is when you become selfless and offer anything to make him succeed.

我認(rèn)為感激和幫助是相輔相成的。
一旦你對你已經(jīng)擁有的東西心存感激并接受它的所有缺點(diǎn)，你就會體驗(yàn)到一種崇高的幸福感，你希望其他人也能體驗(yàn)到這種幸福感。
你傾向于觀察任何一個(gè)在尋找這種感覺的人，而且你想讓這個(gè)人體驗(yàn)到同樣的快樂。此時(shí)的你變得無私，并愿意為他的成功奉獻(xiàn)一切。

Pooja Sharma, Software Engineer at Tech Mahindra (2018-present)
Yes i do love doing that in what ever way it is possible . Helping others makes me feel happy and satisfied . If i’m good at something i definitely use it to help others. Though i helped my friends in explaining them the tough topics before exam as i was expert in grasping things quickly . And i hope i help many in near future as i dream of .

是的，我喜歡盡我所能去幫助他人。幫助別人讓我感到快樂和滿足。如果我擅長某件事，我肯定會用它來幫助別人。因?yàn)槲液苌瞄L學(xué)習(xí)東西，甚至在考試前我都會幫助我的朋友解答那些讓他們感到困難的題目。我希望在不久的將來，我能像我夢想的那樣幫助很多人。